Empty Seats, Full Heart

As Thanksgiving Day draws near, I find myself reflecting not only on those things for which I am thankful, but also on those for whom I am thankful. Holiday celebrations mean family gatherings. And I can't help but think of those who will not be joining our dinner table.

Of course, their dinner table will be a much grander affair - golden place settings, bright white linens, long time friends and family, unlimited fine wine, color and beauty beyond description and pure joy! They will be feasting with the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords.

It is hard to believe, but this will be the ninth year without some of my beloved family members: my mother, Ruth Ann; my step-dad, Earl; and my grandfather, Floyd. And just a few years ago, my grandmother, Virginia, joined their ranks. I miss them still but will honor them for the time we shared together, the unforgettable memories. And for that, I am thankful.

Each of my family greatly influenced my life. I can still hear their voice speak to my heart some of their notorious responses, whimsical advice and lingering lessons.

"Don't make my mistakes. Learn from my mistakes and go make your
own." -Mom

"Always carry a pair of scissors." -Mom

"Well, sure you do!" -Grandpa and Grandma

Dance with the one you love! -modeled by G'ma and G'pa

"You have good tires on that car?" - Grandpa

"You turkey, you!" -Earl

When you think of your loved ones, what do you fondly recall? Add your quotes and memories in the comment box.

Counting My Blessings

“We also pray that you will be strengthened with all his glorious power so you will have all the endurance and patience you need. May you be filled with joy, always thanking the Father. He has enabled you to share in the inheritance that belongs to his people, who live in the light. For he has rescued us from the kingdom of darkness and transferred us into the Kingdom of his dear Son, who purchased our freedom and forgave our sins.” Colossians 1:11-14

Once again, my husband Jon has worked himself out of a job! I told him he was too efficient! On Friday, he interviewed with a construction temp agency. They have a job for him………in Texas!

For the past month, he had been working three hours away, which left me single-parenting Monday through Friday. I couldn’t help but wonder if this situation was just God preparing us for something more. It now appears that I was just getting my feet wet!

My frustration, tears and disappointment have passed and I am now resolved to make the best of the situation. There is so much for which I have to be thankful: a home, food, clothing, two vehicles, paid bills, abundance, family, health and work when so many go without. Contentment is relative. For as many as have more, newer, bigger and better than me, many more have less, older, smaller and worse. But, have or have-not, we all can have Christ.

Christ Jesus is every girl’s dream come true – to be known, to be loved, to be accepted, to be rescued by a prince. For that, I am so thankful.